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November 30, 2005



Thank you for continuing to articulate what is so hard. You are right -- we will never be over this, it isn't possible. I have to realize that IF has been added to all the other soul-shattering things that have happened to me, things that will always be pressing down upon my shoulders. I feel badly sometimes for having given up, but it was the right decision for us.


Beautiful and heartbreaking. All of this leaves such wreckage in its wake.


I'll never be over this, no matter how it ends for me.


With Donna - except I think going through IF was the single most soul-shattering thing I ever endured. I ended up being one of the lucky ones, but I see flotsam and jetsam still floating on the water around me.


I'm sorry. Sometimes I wonder if it's possible to really get over this. I certainly hope it is.

Take care. Your words ring very true with me today.


You post reminds me how much women have to bear. Isn't it amazing how deeply we can feel about things and still manage to keep going on, despite it all?

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